Natural and Lasting Attraction- The Key to Healthy Relationships
Picture this achingly familiar scenario: You have been dating a great guy, you have a close relationship, things are going well. Soon though, he starts to withdraw, gets distant, does not call or come around. Eventually he gives you the “I’m not ready” speech, or “Its not you, it’s me”, etc. Did you take notice, though, of what you did when you first realized he was withdrawing? Did you know that women normally exhibit 1 or more of 5 behaviors? Check this out
The first behavior is to try to become his “buddy”, staying close to him and trying to help him with his problems. You do this because you think he will soon recognize what a wonderful relationship you have.
Or, you may try to make him jealous by telling him you are dating other people, even if you are not. You may also just go on a date with a guy not because you like him, but in order to the one you love to notice, be jealous and want you back.
Pretending that being in a casual relationship is fine is another tactic women take to try to bring him back. You continue to have sex with him, and welcome him when he does come by, and you never let him see you cry. You think that this will make him realize just how great you are!
Giving a man an ultimatum is another tactic women employ. You could also try to make him feel bad and try to force him to stay - thinking naturally that once he is in the relationship, he will realize how happy he is.
Lastly - you may try to compliment him, baby him and serve him in any way you can think of - going way out of your way to do things for him - again, in hopes that he will see how he cannot live without you.
Women ALL do these things - and it is amazing. Why is it amazing? Because they do not work! We do them because these steps make sense to us as women. However, we are neglecting to go inside the mind of a man and really see what does work.
Well - what does work then? The problem is there is no magic cure. There is no fairy dust, no pill, no instant fix in a sentence or two that is going to cure it. What WILL work, however, is to start doing the things that make a man feel a natural and lasting attraction toward you.
Understanding what creates natural attraction will help you in your own relationship to create a stable, satisfying relationship for both you and your partner. What prevents so many women from getting into the relationship of their dreams is that they cannot get past their own personal mindset.
But if you can learn to understand how your mindset affects how you interpret and respond to a man…you will soon get the kind of awareness that will help you interpret on an individual basis what will work for your situation and what will not.
When you become able to create natural and lasting attraction in your own relationship, you will see your relationship begin to really bloom - becoming richer, fuller and more meaningful with each passing day as your attraction and bond grows deeper. Do yourself and your partner a favor and learn today what creates this beautiful foundation for a relationship.
