Today’s Woman And Mr. Right.
In this new era womenas standards for judging their partners has changed significantly. Their independence and equality has never been greater and they are more dedicated than ever to having their own professional and personal lives. Like all things this day and age her assessment of potential mates has become all too fast; weighing his pros and cons with little hesitation or allowance for prolonged courtship.
Picture a woman who has planned her life flawlessly; attending her ideal college, and finding her ideal career. She enjoys her life and decides it is time to consider a serious relationship and possible marriage. She will apply the same care in planning the romantic aspect of her life as she did in planning her professional life.
What will she want from a partner? That will all depend on her previous experience, the values she has, and her personality. She may be looking for a personality that compliments her own, someone dedicated to his job and who has worked hard to get where he is professionally. She may also be looking for someone like her father so she can recreate the positive home life she had as a child. Or she could be looking for her opposite, someone who sees the world differently and can show her different ways to enjoy it.
All things considered, her options are as varied as the potential personalities she could have. Finding someone similar to her would mean a man that has worked hard academically and professionally to attain the same level of success. Someone who does not give up and who attains the goals he has set for himself. She would be attracted to a self-confident man who knows who he is.
If she is pursuing a relationship similar to the one her parents had will look for comparable personality traits. Maybe her home had parents who were completely devoted to one another, who took loyalty and faithfulness to one another very seriously. Or perhaps her parentsa relationship was one of separate lives shared only at dinner time in story yet somehow coming together quite comfortably. There is also the unfortunate possibility that her home was one of loneliness, where her parents had little affection or devotion toward one another. She could still potentially be comfortable living in a similar home. She would desire a man with an inability to share who will never get emotionally closer than sharing the house with her.
Some women will be searching for endless excitement and constant stimulation. A woman like that will want to be pushed into new thoughts and actions. She will probably like a man with many interests or hobbies, who runs from one idea to another, with little definitive impression of his personality. He would be an artistic type, unafraid of new things, and following his own lead.
The type of man a certain woman wants may never be discernable for she might not know herself. Women are as unique and varied as men. She might need a man who possesses a little of all of these qualities. She might need someone who is as hard-working as she is, but who also gets a little bit wild.
Finally let us not forget that women just as men are also looking for the qualities they find attractive. She will be looking for someone she finds appealing not only to her mind but provokes desire physically. Yes, a woman is as different as shades of gray, an elusive and undeniably difficult creature. Understanding she is a mystery will go a long way to capturing the idea of what a woman really wants in a man.
